Copyright Socyberty
Leaving San Diego to Chico, Calif was one of the easiest and hardest decisions I have ever had to make. I knew that I was leaving for a great reason, education, but at the same token I was leaving so much behind.
From family and friends to leaving my puppy, it was a bittersweet feeling that overwhelmed me. But leaving my boyfriend of eight years was what affected me the most. I am only 22, which means we have been together since we were roughly about 14. We grew as kids together, went to prom and attended all of community college together and for the first time my other half was forced to separate from me.
Not only was I upset, I was scared. I always said I was not up for long distance relationships and here I was face to face with that exact decision. It has been tough but I can honestly say because of technology things have gone better than expected.
Of course at times things can be tough but we are able to communicate on so many different digital ways. With the latest technology such as web cams, ichat and camera phone not being in contact in some cyberspace way is nearly impossible. It is quiet honestly up to each person involved in the relationship how much effort they are willing to put in.
According to an article done by education-portal.com statistics show that people in long distance relationships see each other 1.5 times a month. Fortunately now you are able to see each other everyday and though it may not be the same it definitely compensates in some way.
Some believe that long distant relationships never work but with time, effort and technology you can build a whole other foundation on your relationships. It definitely allows you to be creative and appreciate time you have together.
Technology makes it easier to communicate on all levels. You no longer are forced to wait for snail mail but instead with a click of mouse your significant other pops up instantly.
